Wow it's been over 8 months since Tom got here! Somedays it feels like he just got here and other days it feels like he's been here my whole life!!!
We are now used to each others ways and little quirks, but the first few months were quite hard for us actually as I have lived in this house for 4 years and I used to things my way. Now I have to accommodate another person into my home and turn it into our home!! I did redo our extra bedroom and make it toms office so he spends a lot of him time in there with him studying he does and stuff. It's nice for him to have his own space and a place to get away do what he wants, as our home is only about 840 square feet big.
Our life is about to change in a huge way though as Tom is getting a job outside of Toledo where we live... This is going to be a huge change for me because I'm very close to my family and have only lived away from them for about a year one time in my life!
But on a bright note we got a letter from immigration stating we submit enough proof of our relationship and there field office is extremely backed up e don't have to do our couples interview (unless notified in the next 6 of a change). I'm was too happy when we got that letter because that interview was very intimidating to me, I don't like to take test or do job interviews for some reasons they make me sooooooo nervous!
When I think about having to pack up all our stuff and move it make e excited to be able to get rid of some of this junk we have! We don't have much stuff/junk but enough that I would be able to sell and start over at a new place. This kind of makes me happy because I'm a "get rid of" kind of person hehe...
Our goal is to move away for year or so and then to come back to Toledo for a while! I don't see the point in both of us having to be away from our parents! I feel the same way about India too though, because if we lived in India I don't see the point in living far away from Toms parents either. Wy should we both have to be away from our parents?
I just pray that everything works out according to Gods plan!!!!!
We are now used to each others ways and little quirks, but the first few months were quite hard for us actually as I have lived in this house for 4 years and I used to things my way. Now I have to accommodate another person into my home and turn it into our home!! I did redo our extra bedroom and make it toms office so he spends a lot of him time in there with him studying he does and stuff. It's nice for him to have his own space and a place to get away do what he wants, as our home is only about 840 square feet big.
Our life is about to change in a huge way though as Tom is getting a job outside of Toledo where we live... This is going to be a huge change for me because I'm very close to my family and have only lived away from them for about a year one time in my life!
But on a bright note we got a letter from immigration stating we submit enough proof of our relationship and there field office is extremely backed up e don't have to do our couples interview (unless notified in the next 6 of a change). I'm was too happy when we got that letter because that interview was very intimidating to me, I don't like to take test or do job interviews for some reasons they make me sooooooo nervous!
When I think about having to pack up all our stuff and move it make e excited to be able to get rid of some of this junk we have! We don't have much stuff/junk but enough that I would be able to sell and start over at a new place. This kind of makes me happy because I'm a "get rid of" kind of person hehe...
Our goal is to move away for year or so and then to come back to Toledo for a while! I don't see the point in both of us having to be away from our parents! I feel the same way about India too though, because if we lived in India I don't see the point in living far away from Toms parents either. Wy should we both have to be away from our parents?
I just pray that everything works out according to Gods plan!!!!!
