Thursday, November 19, 2015

"We are blah" stage ...........

Wow I can't believe it's been almost 2 years since I last wrote on my blog! Time flies when you're having fun they say...

Over the past 3 years almost of marriage we have lived in Ohio, Illinois  and now we have settled in Michigan. Out of the 3 places we lived in, Michigan is not the best place, but feels most like home to us. We had a lot of fun in Illinois living near Chicago with all the festivals and museums and shopping to do, but to raise a family we are happy in Michigan.

Anyone who has been married any amount of time can understand that you go through different periods in your marriage. I feel as if we are in our "we are blah" period, and it sucks!!! Like on a Friday night we used to go to dinner and go to the movies or shopping and just have a good time together! Now........ we are lucky if we have regular clothes on (meaning no PJ's) past 6pm and are up past 10pm .... WHAT HAPPENED TO US???

Does every relationship go through this??? Or are we the only ones???? My husband suggested we take dance classes ... and I would love to take a painting class ... butttttt then comes friday.... anddddd the couch it is !!!!

So my question to you all is how long were you in the "we are blah" stage for? And how did you get out of it? Did you have to make plans and stick to them? Or did you just wake up one day and be interesting again??? HELP US :P ....